The Kindness of Strangers

Wandering around the Farmers’ Market with my two-year old granddaughter is always a treat. Even from her stroller, she appears to be fascinated by all the goings on around her.  On this particular Saturday, It took both of her little hands to hang onto the red pepper that I purchased.  Even though it was organic, I worried about possible germs when I saw her hold it to her mouth.  She was not about to surrender her gem as I tried to reason with her that we needed to wash it before we ate it.  A woman who had been in line ahead of me, apparently noticed because she handed me a water bottle and encouraged me to step aside to the grassy area and wash off the pepper.  

She must have heard the admiration in my voice when I thanked her because she explained, “We all have little ones in our lives that we want to protect.” I was in awe of the unsolicited gesture and very grateful as I looked up to thank her again… but she had already disappeared in the throng of shoppers. 

Onto the grass I went, talking to my granddaughter as she watched me wash off the pepper.  I shook off the excess water.  I was about to give it back to her when she looked at me with apprehension and said, “Wet!” 

I said, “Yes sweetie, I know it’s wet, but at least it’s clean.”

Still bent over talking with her, I found a roll of paper towels magically appear ten inches from my face.  I looked up to find another woman, the seafood vendor nearby who must have observed the exchange between myself and my granddaughter, offering me a way to dry the pepper.  Tearing off a sheet and thanking her wholeheartedly, I was filled with gratitude for the appearance of yet another angel genuinely willing to offer assistance to a complete stranger.  

“You’re doing the right thing grandma!  You can’t be too careful.”  She smiled and nodded in approval.

The heat ultimately chased us from the Farmers’ Market but the kindness of these two strangers has stayed with me.  These two women had the ability to put themselves in my shoes and immediately understand what it was that I needed.  They didn’t hesitate to help me with something that was in their power to help with.  I felt united with them.  They wanted to help me help my little one.  What an uplifting feeling.  This was a clear reminder that we are all connected. I am not alone and there are plenty of people around who are willing to help.

So often, we hear laments of the unkindness and selfishness in today’s society.  How often do we hear of the kindnesses and unselfish acts that go on every day, not necessarily unnoticed but certainly unreported.  

These women not only helped me with my granddaughter, they inspired me to be more aware of others’ needs as I go through my days and to help wherever I can.  Afterall, we are all on this journey together…

~SuZanne
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© 2023 Zanne

4 thoughts on “The Kindness of Strangers

  1. Always a solid view of the many kindnesses so frequently shown to us and encouragement to “be the change” we want to see in the world. Peace, Terri

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  2. Call it Karma or “what goes around, comes around”, but I truly think that as we pay it forward, so will they. I was returning a piece of floor tile and noticed that the young Hispanic boy pulling a cart fully laden with heavy tiles was stuck, trying to pull his heavy burden up a little slope so he could get into the front door. Great grandma though I am, I looked at him and smiled and put my two hands on the back of the big pile of tile, planted my feet firmly on the ground and nodded at him to go ahead and pull. I pushed, he pulled, both grunting and giggling with the effort. finally we got it off that little slope. I was giggling because I thought we must’ve made quite a spectacle: a white old grandma and a young Hispanic kid. He disappeared into the store, and I returned to my car to close my trunk. When I got inside, he pointed me out to the cashier as he returned his tiles. I just waved and smiled. Later, as I was checking out with another really large piece of tile, another customer magically appeared at my side and said “I’ll help you out with that.” And he carried it to my car. Life sparkles when we sprinkle sunshine.

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    • Oh my Gosh, Patty! What a fun story and a beautiful example! I can just picture the entire incident, you describe it so well! I love that another customer “magically appeared” to help you outside with your purchase. How very thoughtful and kind…just like you. I’m adopting your little phrase as my new mantra, “Life sparkles when we sprinkle sunshine.” You’re an expert at that, Patty! 💕 Thank you so much for sharing.

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